Baca blog Azza tadi buat aku terpanggil utk buat entry ni.

Pengalaman Azza ada cam sama masa nak lahirkan Nadhrah dulu, n kami macam terbalik, Azza anak first normal & second c-sec.. Aku plak vice versa, first dgn Nadhrah c-sec & second dgn Aqilah normal..

Nightmare jugak bile pikirkan blk. skrg aku ada keberanian utk ingatkan blk masa2 tu… kenapa lepas 2org anak?

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Ok, meh aku cite….

eh, jap sebelum aku cite aku nak kongsi tag ni yg aku buat n tulis kat blog lama yg private… (tahun lepas masa masih mengandungkan Aqilah)

Nadhrah&me

Nadhrah & me.. sama x? ;)

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1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED?
not really.. in the midst of thinking process.. but were ready to have a kid tho.. we just love kids..

2. WHAT WAS YOUR SECOND CHOICE NAME FOR YOUR OPPOSITE GENDER NAME?
Khairol Na’im / Khairol Zarif / Khairol Zharfan

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS?
Syukur sgt.. ofcos sgt2 happy.. first child kan?

4. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
pregnant at 24, gave birth at 25

5. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
sama cam nik.. demam, gi klinik, dr ckp nak buat pregnancy test sbb ada loya2 gak.. mmg terkejut gak ms dr ckp cam tu.. pastu lps test dr ckp “tahniah puan mengandung”.. eppy tak terkata beb..

6. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
One sbb dia ada skali kan.. huhu.. pastu my mom n mil.

7. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
not really.. dun mind.. janji sihat

8. DUE DATE?
20 April 2007

9. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
yupp.. the whole of first trimester.. teruk.. setiap hr asyik muntah je dari pg sampai mlm.. sampai lembik2 dh.. nasib baik 1st day raya tu ok, dpt laa mkn sedap2 ms raya..

10. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
hehe.. byk n tukar2.. yg plg slalu nak, tau foo fa.. favourite..

11. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
erm.. my art director then.. sbb dia slalu buli aku.. angkat brg la, gantung frame la.. ish~

12. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD’S SEX?
Girl

13. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX ?
nopp.. any gender will make us happy.. janji sihat~

14. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY? 25kg

15. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER? nopp

16. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
I knew.. but it still came to a surprise..

17. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
yupp.. late, 14days after due date, baby’s head is was not engaged to the pelvis.. had to check-in into hosp sendiri.. mcm gi hotel plak..

Keseluruhan sakit 24 jam..
apa pun aku redha.. ujian tuhan kan.. janji semua selamat.. alhamdulillah..

Dr said my bone structure(pelvis) is either small/narrow, so with the baby weight being 3.7, was too big for me.. Tukang urut ckp sbb tu gak n satu lg sbb lapisan uri tebal..

18. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
HUKM Cheras

19. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR?
masuk labor room nk dkt kol 9pm.. sampai kul 5am ++.. kul 6 masuk bilik operation pulak.. sbb complication, klua kul 7 lebih.. semua skali dlm 12 jam..

20. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
one..

21. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
One.. (thank u syg for keeping me strong..) + 3 staff nurse n 2 doctors..

22. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
opt for natural but at last had to c-sec..

23. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
yupp.. ofcos.. c-sec kena ambik epidural n pain killer..

24. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
3.67kg.

25. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN ?
6 May 2007

26. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER?
Khairin Nadhrah
Khairin = sebaik-baik/the good + Nadhrah = keindahan/radiance
ooh.. a fren juz told me, Nadhrah also means light of beauty..

27. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
1 year, 9 months, 2 weeks & 3 days old

28. WOULD YOU DO IT AGAIN?
yupp.. am already pregnant… in 17 weeks now.. :)

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Ni tag tahun lepas ye bukan skrg, aku tak mengandung lg… walaupun hr tu hampir2… xpelaa, rest dulu..

Ok.. skrg aku cite, pengalaman masa nak bersalin dgn Nadhrah…

Aku dah past 2 weeks of duedate.. n kena check-in masuk hospital sendiri…

Jumaat tu aku kena tidor hospital sorang2 sbb hukm gov non-specialist, suami hanya boleh masuk 8am-8pm… Rs nak nangis gaklaa kena tdor sorang2 kt hospital, takuttt.. dulu aku mmg tak suke keadaan hospital, bau dia, ambiance dia, aura dia, gloomy dia… tp bile dah ada anak dua ni dh jd biasakan..

Subuh kena panggil utk di-induce.. induce adalah sgt sakit sbb dia paksa contraction.. dahlaa doktor tu masukkan dgn sgt kasar n sakit sekali.. tak pernah rs diceroboh sebegitu sakit..

subuh lagi one dh sampai, tp dia takleh masuk, jadi dia tdo je kat kerusi menunggu kat luar.. kitorgdok bersms je laaa…

kul 8 je terus nampak dia, rs lega sket…

n then my family pun dtg… & juga terima kasih pd call n sms yg xputus masuk wishing me good luck n kata2 perangsang semua.. semua ni yg buat aku kuat..

ptg beberapa kali aku masuk bilik air n bwh dh darah… Aku ckp kat nurse dia kata takde apa2, normal for induce.. ya Allah, mmg petang tu aku nasib malang nurse yg shift masa tu adalah kerek2…

kul 8mlm baru dilate 5sm, tp doctor kata msuk labour gak laa sbb dh sakit sgt contraction mmg sakit gile.. tp br 5sm?

Masuk labour kul 9mlm,  masa tu asyik kena marah jee tak bg teran..

kalau ter-teran jer kena marah sbb aku buat heartbeat slow, ada nurse yg baik oklaa ckp baik2.. ada yg garang kena tengking lg, nak apa2 jd kat anak tu ke? dia tanya aku.. mmg laa xnak, tp SAKITLAAA!

mmg rs nak terberak sgt dh, sampai aku mengigil tahan setiap kali contraction dtg..dh laa setiap 2-5minit..

Menahan contraction yg sgt kuat ni dari kul 12 sampai kul 5, n kul 5 tu seriyes aku dh xde energy dh.. rs nak pengsan jerr.. seriyes..

cube gagahkan hati, one mmg tak lepaskan tgn aku dr masuk labour sampai laa kul 5pg tu, tak kire laa brp kuat aku genggam tgn dia bile menahan sakit contraction…

n dia tak putus2 n penat2 pujuk2 aku… aku mmg byk kali rs cam nak tendang je semua machine2 n bendalah yg ada tu… tgk muke one ok, sejuk sikit..

Kul 5 baru laa dilate 9sm.. Finally… tp bile doktor korek2 n ckp kepala baby Nadhrah masih tak engange lagi… dia suruh aku try teran beberapa kali, setiap kali teran dia nampak kepala n dpt rs kepala baby tapi takleh capai, jauh sgt katanye..

ya Allah aku hembus nafas, berikanlah kekuatan pada hamba mu ini…

after 14 hours menahan sakit induce waiting to start dilating, and another 8 hours in labour room to wait until dilated to 9-10sm with every hour ada je yg akan mengorek2 dibwh..

aku diam tunggu doctor bg explanationss…

and all i know masa tu, i told one i taknak vaccum/forcep, becos ada jiran katil ni,  anak dia dh seminggu dalam ICU sbb kepala dia luke sbbkan bendalah itu dgr dia cite pun rs nak nangis..

jadi aku jd phobia.. aku btau one, biarlaa kata sakit lebih, janji baby sihat…

doctor pun kata mmg at this stage, mmg kena c-sec je sbb dh lama sgt, babynye taik semua pun dh pekat n kalau dia makan akan jd racun kat dia.. lemas pun mungkin..

so kul 5 lebih, aku disiapkan n ditolak ke threather operation room…

kul 6:05am tak silap aku, aku dgr dia nangis.. ya Allah lega sgt.. n penat.. terus tertdo… lepas 24 jam, baru dpt tidor, sebenarnya lebih, sbb malam aku masuk hospital tu aku xleh tdo… mcm2 bermain kat benak fikiran..

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masa mengandungkan Aqilah, 38 week, minggu bersalin tu, Aqilah(in the tummy) pon masih tak enganged, kitorg pergi tanya sana sini utk dptkan 2nd opinions n doctor2 predict mungkin akan jadi benda yg sama.. tp bile aku ckp kat Doc kat hukm blk, nak bincang n cite semua yg dh diberitau oleh doktor2 lain n their opinions..

dia ckp ofcos, its up to decide nak pilih caesar terus ke try normal first… but i tell u mmg doctors ni kite leh buat mcm2 assumption, my advice to u is the real labor itself is the answer… we’re not sure of all this.. ini semua kuasa tuhan…

aku takut weih, masa tu… seriyes taktau nak fikir apa.. tp last2 aku nekad, aku nak cube jugak walaupun pengalaman tu susah.. mengalir gak air mata aku setiap kali pikir n kena buat decision..

n ya Allah.. aku bersyukur sgt aku pilih jln tu, sbb aku dpt sedapkan hati aku sendiri, aku berjaya beranak normal.. aku ingat aku xbleh beranak normal dgn masalah pelvis aku yg doktor kata mungkin sempit…

mcmmana melahirkan Aqilah? sgt cepat, mudah & berjln lancar kalau dibandingkan dgn Nadhrah dulu…

kalau nk tau sila baca {entry ni}

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Masing2 ada pengalaman lain2 kan? bile dah jadi ibu ni baru kite tau mcmmana peritnye ibu kite membesarkan n menjaga kite kan..

i LOVE you ma!! My moms bday baru je lepas sabtu lepas 29 mei.. tp kitorg semua nak treat dia kat penang nanti.. sabtu ni.. sbb sabtu lepas pun dia bz dgn event Kumpulan Silaturahim dia..

and ofcos i Love my Mil too.. kalau bukan dia yg membesarkan anak bujang dia dulu dgn baik, takdelaa org yg nak menjaga aku dgn baik skrg ni..

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Skrg tgh nak mengemas packing barang sambil bloghopping blog korangs, sorrylaa tak dpt nak tgl jejak atau bls komen korang skrg, tak sempat… tp i baca semua n appreciate sgt!

esok kitorg akan blk Ipoh dulu, singgah Ipoh sebelum pi penang holiday bersama family {my dads treat} sabtu sampai selasa… selasa blk ke ipoh blk sampai jumaat…

insyaAllah akan bersiaran dari Ipoh & Penang…

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